Nicodemus was perplexed. When the pharisee was informed by Jesus that one must be “born again” to see the kingdom of God, Nicodemus asked incredulously:

“How can a man be born when he is old? Can he enter a second time into his mother’s womb and be born?” (John 3:4)

His confusion was hardly placated by the Lord’s response:

“Very truly I tell you, no one can enter the kingdom of God unless they are born of water and the Spirit.”

I can appreciate why Nicodemus was befuddled. I first read these words – at least with enthusiasm – some 15 years ago. Unlike the pharisee, however, the Lord’s teaching brought understanding to something I had experienced only weeks earlier. For by God’s mercy and grace, I had become the “new creation” described by the Apostle Paul in 2 Corinthians 5:17:

“Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here!”

A New Creation

The specific circumstances surrounding my born-again experience are the subject of another story. But the quick narrative is simply that in the selfish, sinful exercise of my own free will, I became completely, utterly dependent on God’s mercy to not only avoid personal devastation, but also to mitigate the anguish that my repulsive behavior would bring to others.

I needed the Lord’s intervention. I prayed. I repented. In desperation, I even made promises. Yes, I know it is silly to negotiate with God but my despair got the better of me. Praise the Lord, the sinful choices that I made He used for good.

The Gift of the Holy Spirit

He not only intervened, but God gifted me with His Holy Spirit to help me with those promises – and to save me for all eternity. I had been born again – regenerated in Christ as an adopted son of God the Father.

I felt much different. I had a fervor for God’s word which is precisely why Jesus’ teaching to Nicodemus was so enlightening to me. Moreover, I had a passion to be obedient to it – one that had not existed to that point in my life.

Rather than facing the deserved punishment for my evil choices, the Lord was merciful. But as monumental as this display of God’s love was to me at that time, it was but a microcosm of His relentless pursuit of my heart, soul and mind. Like every one of us, I warrant punishment for all of my sinful choices – all of my disobedience to His word.

Regeneration Follows Repentance

However, He did not, has not and will not subject me to that which I deserve. Instead, God sent His only begotten Son to take the penalty for me – and for all those who are in Christ. When we accept what Jesus did for us on the cross, we are cleansed of our sin. Our hearts are thus prepared to be led by the Holy Spirit. We are born again.

What does it mean to accept what Jesus did for us on the cross? As we know from John 3:16, faith in Christ is paramount. I believe that faith is manifested by repentance, and that repentance leads to regeneration. That is, one cannot be born again without acknowledging and repenting of our disobedience to God’s word.

Conclusion

As a pharisee educated in the words of the prophets, Nicodemus was undoubtedly familiar with Ezekiel 36:25-27:

“I will sprinkle clean water on you, and you will be clean; I will cleanse you from all your impurities and from all your idols. I will give you a new heart and put a new spirit in you; I will remove from you your heart of stone and give you a heart of flesh. And I will put my Spirit in you and move you to follow my decrees and be careful to keep my laws.”

These words would underscore the ministry of John the Baptist as he prepared the way for the Lamb of God. He called on followers to repent of their sins and turn back to God – the symbol of which was water baptism in the River Jordan. John was the bridge between the prophets of the Old Testament and the Gospel of Jesus Christ, cleansing impurities so that the faithful would be indwelt by the Spirit of the Lord and moved to obedience.

In his letters, the Apostle Paul uses the terms “new man” or “new self” – living a “new life” in which our “deceitful desires” have been set aside for a life lived in “true righteousness and holiness.” I fall far short in living such a life. My sins, however, are washed clean by the blood of Christ. His Spirit leads me in repentance and in pursuit of a righteous and holy life.

Being “born again” is not just a thing. It is the thing.

If you have not yet become God’s new creation – and you will know if you have – I pray you will open your heart and mind to becoming just that. Read scripture. Pray. Repent. Jesus has already done the hard work on the cross. His Holy Spirit will do the rest.